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Homelessness, and 217 nights later…

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Birmingham, AL

Do you ever auto-recall certain thoughts that crossed your mind at some point during your life, even if they were a lifetime ago?  I do.  When I was 26 years young, I recall saying to myself, “Self, I wonder what it would be like to be homeless.”  Well, maybe I should have somehow done everything in my power to erase that particular thought from the ‘ol memory bank because I now know what it is like.  Well, to an extent.  Yes, we were homeless for the first time in our lives… for 217 nights!

Recall…

We spent a total of a little over seven (7) months in a hotel in Shipshewana, IN due to a frame break on our Evergreen Lifestyle 38RS fifth wheel.  She was not an old rig.  After all, we had her built to our specifications, purchased her on September 10, 2014, hit the road on September 11, 2014 (an easy date to remember), and were only living in her ten (10) months before returning her to the repair center in Middlebury, IN for minor repairs.  Two (2) months later we learned that our Baby Girl was doomed. She would be no more.

Fast forward…

The year 2015 ended and we welcomed the New Year in with a bang.  We attended a party hosted by the Farmstead Inn, at the Farmstead Inn.  It was a lot of fun and, as usual, we helped do whatever we could to assist the staff.  The next day we even helped clean up.

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After ringing in the New Year, a few more weeks rolled by and we eventually celebrated Craig’s birthday.  Well, the hotel did!  We woke up to this note on our door…

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… and a birthday surprise!

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I’m telling you… the employees at and the owners of the Farmstead Inn really stepped up to the plate.  They all treated us like family (royalty, really) and we fell in love with them all.  It is difficult to put into words how much they went out of their way for us, showed how much they cared, and how much they mean to us!

Just a few short days later, on Thursday, January 28, 2016, we closed on our new Evergreen Lifestyle 39FB.  (The transaction was what is known as a “substitution of collateral”.  This means we did not have to pay sales tax on the new rig, thank goodness!)  Long story, but it was the only fifth wheel available at the factory that would even come close to resembling Baby Girl.  They fixed her all up for us with upgrades and minor modifications.  They even had our entire solar system removed from Baby Girl and installed on the new rig.  They pretty much did whatever we wanted. Yes, that was nice of Lifestyle, but was it worth being homeless for 217 nights?  I don’t think so!

Most full-time RVers name their rig… something.  We have named our new rig “Gracie”… for two reasons.  One, she is mostly grey and, two, it is only by the ‘grace’ of God we made it through to the end.  One might imagine that being cooped up with your husband/wife in a hotel room for months on end might make some days, well… longer than others; that things might get a little tense at times.  That was not really the case for us.  We had our moments (albeit very few), but we also knew we were in for a long ride so we might as well hold on tight to each other and face each and every new day as a blessing.  And that’s exactly what we did!  It not only strengthened us individually, but as a couple. I have long had issues with patience.  I was like my Grandma Hazel.  As a child I remember her saying, “Patience, hell!  I’m going to kill someone!”  I take after my grandmother in that regard.  Actually, I should say I took after my grandmother.  You see, I prayed and prayed and prayed some more that the Good Lord would teach me patience throughout our very long ordeal, and I believe He has pretty much accomplished His goal and answered my prayers, too!  And maybe, just maybe that is why we were stuck in a hotel room for so long… He had a LOT of work to do!  I no longer resemble my former self, for I am now so much mellower.  Many of our friends have questioned how we could not be upset by what we have been through.  I answer them in one simple word… G-R-A-C-E!

A final word…

I read these words on a poster in one of the little shops in Shipshewana and wanted to share them with you:

 Try Jesus!

If you don’t like Him…

 … The Devil will always take you back!

Life is short,

Death is sure,

Sin is the cause,

Christ is the cure.

                                                                                 A-men!

12 thoughts on “Homelessness, and 217 nights later…

  1. So glad you’re back on the road! I love Gracie’s name 🙂

  2. We SAW that sign there last week, Jo! Let me tell you…you are well known and loved there. I spoke with Cindy at Shipshewana South Campground and I barely got Jo and Craig out of my mouth and a giant smile came over her face and she shouted GEBBERT!!! She gushed over you. Yes, I truly believe you were put in that town that long for a multitude of reasons. Shipshe is loaded with fine people, but they found out that people of equal character are out there when you two rolled into town. This is just a wonderful story, and even though you had to endure 217 days without a ‘home’…you ended up with a surrogate one. This just warms my heart to no end. 🙂

    • Jim, OMG! I got chills and nearly cried when I read your comment. Yes, there IS a reason and purpose for EVERYTHING! We had such an incredible experience in Shipshewana (“Shipshe”), that it is just difficult to describe. We just LOVE the folks there and are so blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know them. I’m so glad you haven’t given up on me. I have a LONG way to go to catch up. Stay tuned! !!

  3. Thanks Honey! Love, Mom

  4. Didn’t know the new home had a name – LOVE IT!

  5. So glad to hear that everything is going well!

  6. I saved a link to your blog and checked back on occasion. It was good to see a new post. Yours is a story I have told several people about. This could happen to anyone and I wanted to let my wife know about it to be prepared in case it happened to us. You have nerves of steel to be able to put up with it. IMO Evergreen should not be proud of taking that long to fix you back up with a rig. On the other hand, I supposed at least they took responsibility for the frame issue. Your story gives me strength and also encourages me to become more content with what I have and where I’m at in life. I’m working on becoming a more patient man and you have set the example. Looking forward to checking back for updates.

    • Thank you, Mark, for your kind words. Yes, it’s best to be prepared for ANY unplanned event. One never knows. But, we continue on. Life is good! If you want to receive notices of my updates, please feel free to “follow” me by clicking on the button. I was wondering if you had given up on me! Thanks for hanging in there. It’s been a busy week, but hoping to post more updates this next week. Oh, and as far as working on your patience, He has every single solitary day of yours (and mine) already planned. So, let go and let God. Have a blessed day!

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